Contentment… and a perfect visit to the National Botanic Gardens in Dublin!

National Botanic Gardens, Glasnevin, Dublin

A slightly tilted photo of one of the glass houses at the National Botanic Gardens, Glasnevin, Dublin

Contentment. Do you ever think about whether or not you are content? It is something I’ve thought about a lot over the years. These thoughts on contentment all first started while I was in the throes of really struggling with my strong-willed toddler.   I attended a parenting course in the hopes of finding a magic solution to the challenges I was facing.

one of my favourite flowers... peony

one of my favourite flowers… peony

Turns out the main discussion in this course was actually about contentment. When the teacher started talking about contentment I had too many “yes, I’m content, BUT…” thoughts in my head and more importantly, in my heart.

National Botanic Gardens

Gladiolus

I wasn’t “there” yet; that place where you find peace no matter what the circumstances are.  It would take me quite a few more years to be able to feel contentment.

National Botanic Gardens

National Botanic Gardens

My life has been so full and I just feel so fortunate, even through the many ups and downs.

National Botanic Gardens

Iris

Recently I was lucky enough to steal away for an hour to the National Botanic Gardens in Glasnevin, Dublin. (http://www.botanicgardens.ie) It was a perfect afternoon for a relaxed stroll through the gardens.

water lily

water lily

The weather was amazing; warm but not hot, sunny but not too sunny to bleach out photographs!

statue in the gardens. National Botanic Gardens, Dublin

statue in the gardens

I love this statue.

Best Night Ever Sign Best Night Ever closeup

Their faces sure look content to me!

unusual daisy-looking flower

unusual daisy-looking flower

It was just me and my camera, and we had a ball together!

inside a glass house

inside a glass house

I was following two elderly ladies on part of my walk. Not in a  stalking kind of way, but simply because I entered the garden behind them.  I loved their conversation about the different flowers and where they source their own flowers, and the new varieties!  O.K., maybe I was eavesdropping a little bit! 🙂

interesting color combination

interesting color combination with this bearded iris

I was enjoying my time of peace in such a gorgeous garden.  That is when a wave of complete contentment came over me.  I even sent my husband a text about it!

These remind me of pretty birds flying together...

These iris remind me of pretty birds flying together…

I was doing exactly what I wanted to be doing.

Lamb's ear: these colours remind me of winter.

Lamb’s ear: these colours and textures remind me of winter.

I know I’ve said it before, but I have the most amazing people in my life.  I actually had a motto for a while: “People First”.  I think at the time I was struggling with some issues, and the clarity came when I started saying “people first” to myself.  So simple, but so important.

National Botanic Gardens

National Botanic Gardens

I’m happy with the decisions I’ve made over the years, especially with regards to being a stay-at-home mom, working from home, and finally working outside of the home.  I’ve done it all, and I have enjoyed it all.  I’m not saying it was a piece of cake, but it was all worth it.

heron by the water

heron by the water

herron

heron

Life is still full of challenges but along the way I’ve managed to find my inner peace, my contentment.  What a huge difference that makes!

geranium

geranium

geranium

geranium

Being content doesn’t mean I’ll stop trying to improve myself, or work with less effort in the many projects I’m involved in. Not at all.

foxgloves

foxgloves

fox gloves in front of fern

foxgloves in front of fern sculpture

fern sculpture

fern sculpture

It does mean I have a much better attitude about everything!

from the rose garden

from the rose garden

I hope you’ve found your contentment, too.

In peace,
Dana

 

In a Vase on Monday: Pink, Purple, Red & Coral … in November!

Pink Hesperanthus (schizostylis)

Pink Hesperanthus (schizostylis)

Hello there!  I am so looking forward to this week’s ‘In a Vase on Monday’ meme!  My weekend included one whole entire day that had no scheduled activities.  woohoo!  That meant garden time for me.  To top off that great schedule, the weather was incredible on Saturday; very mild and beautifully sunny!

Geranium

Geranium

I worked until I was physically exhausted and could do no more.  There is always so much to do in a garden!  I would not call it work though because I enjoy all of it.  But it certainly does take time and effort.  Lots of effort.

Knautia macedonica "Red Knight"

Knautia macedonica “Red Knight”

After my hard working day, I was so happy to take some time and gather flowers.  At that stage though, I had to move quickly to catch the setting sun in my pictures.  My collection includes Hesperantha, Erysimum Bowles’ Mauve, Geranium, and  Knautia Macedonica ‘Red Knight’.

Erysimum Bowles' mauve

Erysimum Bowles’ mauve

I grouped the erysimum bowles’ Mauve all together.  The individual flowers were rather   wimpy looking on their own.  The group of them look almost substantial!

Geranium

Geranium

The geranium are two lovely shades.  We were scheduled to have a very hard frost on Saturday night (which we did have), so there days are seriously numbered.  They are from last year, though, so they have had a great long life.

Evening sunlight

Evening sunlight

I just love the evening sunlight…

In a Vase on Monday...

In a Vase on Monday…

This cute little arrangement fits nicely on our kitchen table.  I don’t have any pictures of that to show you, ’cause my kitchen is a bit of a disaster at the moment 😉

November in the garden...

November in the garden…

The vase I bought at a charity shop in Switzerland 18 years ago.  It is a very simple piece of pottery.  I last used it to hold an arrangement of barley, with the raffia tied in front.  It was for a special friend who really appreciated it.  But when she was done with it, she gave me back the little vase. So now I have it with memories of my friend too.

A different view

A different view

Remember, you can see other “In a Vase on Monday” posts at: Cathy’s blog http://ramblinginthegarden.wordpress.com .

Thanks for stopping by!

Have a good week!
Dana